Lately I've been working out A LOT... it's given me plenty of time to think about things.
Today I realized something about love that I've been overlooking lately. I realized that if you try to get someone to love you, you're just failing yourself. If you have to try and get someone to love you you're wasting your time. I feel that by trying to get someone to love you, is like trying to reach some sort of self-gratification. If by chance you do force your love on someone and they accept (love you back), you have gained nothing but your goal of self gratification. I don't feel that life is supposed to be about "me" and what "I" want. I feel that by forcing someone to love me it's like I have reached my goal and now that I have earned their love. I can now feel better about "me." This is not who I want to be.
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hum...you have no idea how helpful that was to me.
Working out, reading books, and philosophizing too? Pretty cool.
What if two people just love each other with out forcing it? That works out pretty good.
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